Charisma and Appearance Are Not Enough
King David achieved incredible success in many areas—military, political, religious, and cultural. Yet, despite his accomplishments, the people of Israel were deceived by his son Absalom, who skilfully portrayed himself as the perfect leader. Absalom was admired not only for his charm but also for his striking appearance. The Bible describes him as “flawless from head to foot,” with a mane of hair so thick that when he cut it once a year, it weighed five pounds (2 Samuel 14:25–26).
Absalom used his charisma and good looks to win over the people. He met Israelites seeking justice at the city gate, where he pretended to care deeply for their problems. Whenever someone approached to bow before him, Absalom would stop them, shake their hand, and kiss them, making himself seem approachable and kind. Through this behaviour, he gradually stole the hearts of the people of Israel (2 Samuel 15:5–6).
However, Absalom’s actions were part of a larger plan to undermine his father, King David. He spread lies about David’s leadership, claiming the king was not interested in hearing the people’s concerns. He then promised that if he were in charge, he would ensure everyone received justice. By telling people what they wanted to hear, Absalom positioned himself as the leader Israel needed, even though his true intentions were self-serving.
Lessons for Political Leadership Choices
The story of Absalom is a powerful reminder of the dangers of valuing appearance and charm over integrity and substance in leadership. It warns us not to be swayed by superficial qualities, such as good looks, charisma, or deceitful promises.
This lesson is particularly relevant today, where African leaders are often chosen based on their ability to appeal to people’s emotions rather than their capacity, character, achievements, and competencies. Many voters are drawn to those who promise quick fixes or who seem relatable through false humility, only to discover later that such leaders lack the qualities needed to govern wisely.
The Bible reminds us that God’s criteria for leadership are different from human preferences. God’s will in leadership is essential because human judgement is often flawed. This story encourages us to look beyond petty grievances or surface-level appeal and focus on a leader’s true character, values, and vision.
Ultimately, the story of Absalom is a call to prioritise substance over appearance and fake branding, truth over propaganda, and God’s guidance over human impulses when choosing leaders. Only by doing so can we avoid the pitfalls of deceptive leadership and build a society rooted in justice, wisdom, and integrity.
